It's one of those things that are easier said than done. You tell people to do it and get over it. But chances are you yourself won't be able to do it.
Some people can do it easily, because they are the type who don't hold grudges. They get over things easily. Sometimes its good, because you don't waste your energy being angry. At times it's bad, because people will start walking all over you, knowing you will always forgive them.
Some people, "die die oso don't want to forgive" (had to use manglish, it doesn't have the full effect in proper English) These people will hate you to the max if you've wronged them. Whatever bridges built has burned down into a heap of ash. Never talk to them again.
Most people, I believe, will forgive certain things.
Now my qestion is, is it easier to forgive a friend or an enemy?
The thing about enemies, you don't HAVE to forgive them. Because it won't affect your relationship, because there wasn't one to begin with. So you don't even have to bother.
When it comes to a point where a friend is asking for forgiveness, that means they've done something really wrong. Will it change your friendship? Did they betray your trust? Do you really think you'll feel better after forgiving them?
Well, I think if you no longer feel like you can trust them, talk to them like you used to, hang out like you used to, then it matters not if you forgive them or not, because you can no longer be friends.
Well on a lighter note...
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
...About Valentine's Day
Not Valentine's Day the day. Valentine's Day the movie.
It was pleasantly nice. Don't let the movie trailer fool you! It holds quite a few surprises in store!!
It was pleasantly nice. Don't let the movie trailer fool you! It holds quite a few surprises in store!!
I think Taylor Swift portrays a bimbo pretty well. Ahaks.
And Taylor Lautner looks awfully familiar. No, not because he's in twilight, I don't even watch that movie. It's because I've seen him elsewhere, way before twilight came out. Just google images for sharkboy and lava girl. Yes, THAT movie I've watched. You can sue me again.
I have to say, my favourite couple in the movie is......the gay couple. nyeheheheheh. What, wait, there's a gay couple? hehehehe, go watch the movie. Hot gay couple. But they're only revealed towards the end of the movie! So be patient.
All in all, the movie managed to squeeze in loads of worst case scenarios that can happen between couples. Not bad.
Enjoy your movie.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
...About "Keep It Up"
Your Ipohmali boy Point Blanc is back y'all!! This is THE chinese emcee of Malaysia! Yeap, he's been on the lay low for some time, but he was busy in the studios.He ain't giving up hip hop y'all.
Worldwide internet release of his new song "Keep It Up" from his latest album "The Turning Point" is today!
Head on over to www.thisispointblanc.com to listen to his new track.
Support Malaysian music.
Malaysian hip hop represented.
Keep It Up.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
...About My Books
Yes, bookworm I am. Although I do not have as much books as I'd like to have, I definitely have quite a number.
See the ones on the right, the ones lying horizontally? Those books are from back when my brain had more synapses and grey matter. Now all my brain does is receive receive receive.
What I'm supposed to study for my job. Extra knowledge. Non-fiction. No excitement. T_T
Please ignore the top two tier, cause the left hand side are random stuff. An the right hand side are work related.
All fiction.
These are the ones closest to my heart, the ones on the top most shelf. The complete 7 books series of Harry Potter. With Tales of Beedle The Bart.
Yes, I was born in the year of the Tiger, but not taking UPSR this year and I read Harry Potter. So sue me.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
...About Learning
I like learning. I like learning something new. Especially if the knowledge helps me in so many ways. Especially when it's important.
What I don't like is sitting in class. No, what I really don't like is waking up in the morning 5 days a week and going class. No choice, because it comes with the job.
But, again, I like learning.
Most of the time I'll be fidgeting in my seat. Shaking my leg, crossing and uncrossing my legs, stretching, shaking my head to keep me awake, daydreaming. So yeah, you get the picture.
But I do my best to concentrate. If you're stuck in class might as well receive the input.
I get frustrated if I don't understand something.
You're stuck there in class, you're listening, but you don't know what the heck the person in front is talking about.
What's the point right?
So grasp the knowledge.
Learning something, understanding it, and being able to impart that knowledge later on, that's satisfaction.
Makes me feel worthy of my job.
This must be the randomness thing I've written.
Oh what the heck.
What I don't like is sitting in class. No, what I really don't like is waking up in the morning 5 days a week and going class. No choice, because it comes with the job.
But, again, I like learning.
Most of the time I'll be fidgeting in my seat. Shaking my leg, crossing and uncrossing my legs, stretching, shaking my head to keep me awake,
But I do my best to concentrate. If you're stuck in class might as well receive the input.
I get frustrated if I don't understand something.
You're stuck there in class, you're listening, but you don't know what the heck the person in front is talking about.
What's the point right?
So grasp the knowledge.
Learning something, understanding it, and being able to impart that knowledge later on, that's satisfaction.
Makes me feel worthy of my job.
This must be the randomness thing I've written.
Oh what the heck.
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